Everything in life has two aspects to it - the bright side and the dull side. I wrote the brighter side first as we usually forget to see that side. In our day to day life we have to face events and situations which are not in accordance with our expectations. And the human tendency is to see it in a negative light, and spoil our mood and performance.
But surely every single incident in life has a positive side along with the negative side. It depends on the person which side he/she chooses to look at. It is like "life treats you the way you want it to treat you". The negative side is there just to make us aware of our threats, not to overshadow the brighter side. But we choose to get stuck with the negative aspect and the prime reason for this is that we are afraid of failure.
Failures are never the end of the road; they are just a milestone in our path to success. Life time and again presents us with threats and we mostly tend to surrender before them. Because that’s the easiest thing to do. But the challenge and excitement of life is to convert the threats into opportunity. Failures and threats should only act as an awareness of the risks we might face; but our concentration should always be on the opportunities.
This is the simplest way to be happy and successful in life.
"For everything denied to you expect a better one coming your way."